it is always dangerous to drop in on someone or be dropped in on. My initial comments were "tongue in cheeck"
However, if I was young an single and girl asked me drop in on her softie then sure

careful of Kev...he seems to have gone very SNAG

oN THE SERIOUS SIDe there are some place that one surfs that require a degree of edge and these places do not need to be big wave breaks.
due to crowds, long boards, rocks or being a steep 4 foot wave, being laid back, mellow and blissed out can result in no waves or an accident.
repect sometimes is gained by charging. At the end of the day surf where your comfortable and on what your comfortable with...oh and dont drop in!